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Saturday, May 26, 2012

The Joy in the Journey

A lesson for us all...

Story by Max Lucado

She sat in 14E, and I sat in 14D.


She was rural, and I was urban. She was backward, and I was sophisticated. She was homey, and I was “professional.” But she could see, and I was blind.

“They sure do put these seats close up against each other, don’t they,” she said as I sat down.

Her face was ten inches from mine. She had basset-hound cheeks; her eyebrows peaked over her nose; and her jowls sagged. She wore a Dutch-bob haircut and a blue, velour pants suit. I don’t know if she was old or just looked old. But I do know one thing: She’d never flown.

“I don’t do this too much, do you?”

When I told her I did, her eyes widened. “Oooh, that must be fu-un.” (She could add a syllable to any word.)

I groaned to myself. I already had a bad attitude. My week had been hectic. The plane was late and overbooked. And now I was sitting next to Gomer Pyle’s mother.

“Oooh, boy, look at that one!”

She pointed at the plane ahead of us on the runway.

“Is this one that big?”

“Yes.” I hoped my brief response would show her that I wasn’t up for chitchat. It didn’t.

“I’m going to see my boy in Dallas. Do you ever go to Dallas? I hope he’s OK. He had a stomach flu last week. He’s got a new dog. I can’t wait to see it. It’s a Labrador. Do you know what that is? They are big and lovable and … ”

She was uncanny. Not only could she add a syllable to every word, she could answer her own questions.
As we were taking off, however, she got quiet. For several moments she said nothing. Then she suddenly let out a sound that would have called the pigs for dinner.
“Oooooeeee, those trees down there look like peat moss!”

People seated around us turned and stared like I was E. F. Hutton.

“What river is that?”

I told her I didn’t know, so she flagged down a stewardess.

When I pulled out my laptop computer, she was enthralled. “Now isn’t that clever.”

And that went on … the whole flight. She didn’t miss a thing. If she wasn’t staring out the window, she was amazed by a magazine. If she wasn’t talking, she was “oooh-ing.” She played with her fan. She turned her light on and off. She toyed with her seat belt. She savored her lunch. When we went through turbulence, I looked over at her to be sure she was all right, and she was grinning. You’d have thought she was riding the Ferris wheel at the county fair!

It occurred to me, about mid-journey, that she was the only person enjoying the trip.

The rest of us, the “sophisticated,” were too mature to have fun. I was staring at a computer screen—eyes tired, stressed-out, trying to find a message for stress-filled people and never noticing that the message was sitting beside me.

“Wasn’t that a fu-un trip?” she asked as we were leaving the plane.


I didn’t say anything. I just nodded and smiled. Off she walked, bouncing down the concourse as curious as a six-year-old. I watched her as long as I could, then turned to go to my next flight with a lesson learned.


I resolved to keep my eyes open.

It does little good, I decided, to make the trip and miss the journey.

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Put the glass down today

By Gary Gzik

Once, a professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see and asked the students, 'How much do you think this glass weighs?' '1 pound!' ....'2 pounds!' .....'3 pounds!' ......the students answered.



'I really don't know unless I weigh it,' said the professor, 'but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?' 'Nothing' the students said.



'OK what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?' the professor asked. 'Your arm would begin to ache' said one of the students.



'You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?' 'Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis; have to go to hospital for sure' ventured another student. All the students laughed.



'Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?' Asked the professor. 'No,' replied the students.' 'Then what caused the arm ache; the muscle stress?



Instead, what should I do?' The students were puzzled. 'Put the glass down' said one of the students. 'Exactly!' said the professor. 'Life's problems are something like this. Hold them for a few minutes in your head; they seem OK. Think of them for a long time; they begin to ache. Hold them even longer; they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.'



It is important to think of the challenges in your life, but EVEN MORE IMPORTANT to 'put them down' at the end of every day before you go to sleep. That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh, strong, can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!



Remember friend- PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY!

Monday, May 14, 2012

La mariposa que no vuela

Odia. Odia esto. Ya muchas veces ha dicho a sí mismo que no va a iniciarlo. Y él le dio por hecho, ¿no? Casi todos los días tiene que buscarlo, como un perro que ha perdido su maestro. ¿Por qué no da su tiempo y atención? Has visto. Ella esta cansada por las palabras vacías. Es tonta. No quiere más de esto. Quiere transformar a una mariposa que puede volar y nunca mirará hacia atrás. Y él cuando se pierde la mariposa, nunca la encontrará.


Sunday, May 13, 2012

我心目中的开心果

Hehehehehehehehehe... Hahahahahahaha... Hohohohohohoo... Hahahahahaha... 

这个可怕却温暖的笑声你听过吗? 

让我向你介绍我心目中的开心果。


我心目中的开心果。。。

笑口常开,开心无比!



我心目中的开心果。。。

人见人爱,也超可爱!


我心目中的开心果。。。

就是我最疼爱的妈妈!


妈妈,母亲节快乐!

Friday, May 11, 2012

Our story on your special day

What could have put us together?

It could have been the mIRC 12 years ago.
It could have been the ugly baby photos 11 years ago.
It could have been the calls 10 years ago.
It could have been the ICQ 9 years ago.
It could have been the Friendster 8 years ago.
It could have been the MSN Messenger 7 years ago.
It could have been the text messages 6 years ago
It could have been the Facebook 5 years ago.

But no. Not at all.

4 years - in the United States.
3 months - summer break.
2 weeks - all I had in Kuching.
1 day - the first meet-up in 12 years, unintentionally.

Only God could have orchestrated something like this. :)

In the many more 12 years to come, may we reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fulness of Christ! (Ephesians 4:13)

Happy birthday to the man who always stands by me, cheers me up and prays for me!



Psst: The music was specially composed for the birthday boy man! 
Psst psst: The girl standing next to me in the thumbnail/picture dated 2000 is my sister (in case you thought he had a sex change)!

Wednesday, May 09, 2012

A complete day...

...is when I come home from work to a family, a complete meal and a good rest.


Today, I can finally smile to sleep. What bliss :)


p/s: For those of you who have a family to go back to after a long day of work and perhaps stress, count it a blessing. Treasure your loved ones.

:)


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Sunday, May 06, 2012

My world is spinnnnningg

Dizzy spells, please go away!


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Friday, May 04, 2012

The people that kept me going

I came home, browsed through my bookshelf and contemplated on this one book that I had not touched for a long, long time. The Song of Songs: The divine romance between God and man, the title read. As I was flipping the pages of the book, a yellow little piece of paper tucked in a certain page caught my eye.   

It was a sweet, little note. I had forgotten how it came to me but just by looking at the handwriting, an overwhelming sense of familiarity washed over me. 

Dearest baby Lia,

As you step forward to another milestone in life, may God bless you with His wisdom & love, peace & joy in all undertakings. Keep trusting in Him in whatever circumstances. We are here loving and supporting you.

Soar as eagle high above the clouds and be renewed in His strength. 

Pray unceasingly & rejoice always.

You are the light in this world. I have faith in you and God.

Love,
Mama

13/09/11

It has been almost 8 months.

I still remember, on the day I flew, 13 September 2011, how two angels stood up for me and offered a helping hand. I still remember, more than a week later, how afraid and paranoid I became when I learned that to go home, I would have to walk for 10 minutes along a quiet road. I still remember, 6 weeks later, 28 October 2011, how blessed I was when another angel flew all the way from Kuching to help me move from Lanai Kijang to my cousin's place - I would have to write about this some day

I also remember, nearly two weeks after I moved into this house, how I found grace in a case of burglary. I also remember, how December was a month when I was ready to embrace a new beginning

I remember, how the first two months of 2012 were like a crazy roller coaster ride that seemed to never end. It took a birthday weekend to take all that away. April passed by happily and peacefully; and I thought I was going to die on the 1st of May. 

Today, as I reflect on that little piece of note from Mama, I can't say for sure that I have become more loving, more joyful, more trusting, more prayerful, more faithful, stronger and wiser over the course of the 8 months I've been here. 

I have, nonetheless, grown to appreciate the people around me so much more for their constant encouragement and love that kept me going. Little notes, little messages, little calls, little deeds and words of kindness during these few days made me realise that there is a lot more to life than... just living for my own sake.

Mervyn, Siao Hui Che, Ah Tim, Tua Yi, Siew Yong Che, Cassia Che, Aunt Cat, Shan May, Cat, Nai Lin, Seng Ling Che, Seng Hian Che, Be Yi, Mei, Mr. Manager, and my family, THANK YOU. 

I almost feel like I've just risen from the dead and have been given a second chance to live. Hehe!

Wednesday, May 02, 2012

I hope it's not dengue fever

Sudden onset of high fever, 39 degrees C, headache, red throat and body aches.

I've never drunk this much water in my entire life before.

The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have LIFE, and that they might have it MORE ABUNDANTLY.
(John 10:10)

Friday, April 27, 2012

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Kampung girl's issues with the city :P

Before you read this post, note that it isn't meant to be a platform for complaints. I'm just trying to paint a picture of the issues I face with from day to day living in the city.

*****

One thing I find is that most people who live in the city have a common trait.

They are impatient. 

I guess I should only speak for myself. However, try as I might, I could find no evidence to counter my own perception. At least not until I met the taxi driver who tried to rip me off by driving at 50km/h on a KL highway that was void of cars. There and then, I realized that patience is a virtue only if it works to your benefit. Think Adam Smith. Think self-interest.

(Sweet memoirs from UChicago just suddenly flooded me XD)

*****

Guess what? Countless times has this city triggered my impatience and aggravation. Brah!

Have I told you how the KTM changed their time of arrival at least TEN times and made me wait almost two hours? Have I told you how packed it was when it did come? Have I told you how every bit of me was squeezed like an almost-empty toothpaste tube? Have I told you how I could feel the tummy of the person in front and the butt of the person behind me? Have I told you how nobody needed to hold onto anything because we were each other's support (like, literally)? And have I told you how the air-conditioning died...and gave us a taste of hell?

I just wish no tourist will attempt to ride it during the peak hours. Get the taxi, stay alive. :)

In the meantime, please add more coaches, KTMB. Seriously.

*****

Another pet peeve:

Imagine you are crossing the bridge with the awkward 1.5 steps between the Bandaraya LRT station and the Bank Negara KTM station. It's a busy bridge in the morning. While you could only walk in a single file with the rest, those coming from the opposite direction take up 90% of the space on the bridge. That's not a problem. What's annoying is when some people take up the remaining 10% of space and don't move out of the way when you're coming. Hey, what do you expect me to do? Duck and crawl between your legs? Cannot lar~ 

*****

This city took my friendliness away lor...

When I was in the U.S., I smiled at everyone, everywhere, every time. Almost. Here, I don't smile to strangers for fear of being raped (Sorry for the bluntness, but I am being as real as I can be). 

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Good morning, sunshine!

you may not always feel like you're at your best,

things could be a drag and put you to the test,

but why show a crestfallen face to the rest,

when you can make someone's day like a princess!


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Sunday, April 22, 2012

The day my mom retired

Sometimes, the best feeling you can ever savour in is...
When you know you can do what it takes to make someone happy...
And finally seeing the look of happiness on that person's countenance!

*****

I took the public transportation to LCCT after a half day's work on Thursday. My heart was, of course, pumping with excitement as I thought about the prospect of meeting my loved ones at home. Nobody knew I was coming home except my brother, my cousin, her bf, and my giant. :)

Everything went smoothly as planned. While they were seated, I snuck up the other stairs and ran to the back of the restaurant. SNAP! Did they just see me? I hid behind the pillar but worried that my butt would jut out. I sneaked a peek... SHOOT! Did my dad just see me? I had my black and white office wear, which looked exactly like Lok Thian's waitresses so I tried to blend in. 

Finally, a waitress, a real and legit one (unlike me), motioned for me to enter the kitchen. She brought me to where the dishes were and told me I could bring out the noodles first. Ok... Mmm... I better do this right... I better not trip... 

Very elegantly (aiseh) I walked into the room with a straight face. Out of the corner of my eyes, I saw my dad staring at me. I saw him widening his eyes. I saw his eyebrows furrowing. I saw his mouth opening. 

"Eh... Ah lia!..." 

I kept myself from looking at him and calmly placed the plate down. Mom was very distraught by the noodles and kept looking at the noodles. 

What next???

I walked over to mom. By then, she noticed me and exclaimed in surprise. EH?! AREN'T YOU IN LANGKAWI?!?

The rest is history.



Happy birthday, mom! Congratulations!



It's a Wonderful Journey!

When: April 11, 2012
Who: Vince, Jed, Ian, Yvonne and yours truly
Where: Kampar and Ipoh, Perak
Why: Why not
What: Sing the song below
How: To the tune of Disney's Anastacia's "At the Beginning"



We were colleagues
Riding out on a journey
Never thought that
This day would come true



But here we are
All together in one car
On the way to Kampar



On the highway
Ian sings and we sway
Such a good time
The weather so fine



Oh, breakfast fun!
We start with chee cheong fan
Wanton mee, yi mai, lai fan



And hey, we go, we go, house of Vincent
Next, we jump, we jump, on the mountain
Splash, we splash, we splash, at the waterfall
Wonderful journey!



When it strikes noon
We curl into a cocoon
Some sleep, some talk
Friendship strong like a rock!



And then we go
To fabulous Ipoh
And feed on ngah choi hor fan



And hey, we go, we go, house of Yvonne
Play, we play, we play, the piano
Love, we love, heong peng and soya
Wonderful day out!


(AWKWARD SWITCH TO DISNEY'S ALADDIN'S "A WHOLE NEW WORLD")


Then we reach a whole new level...


(PAUSE)


Unbelievable sight
As we pose by the lakeside
Thank you Gloria for waiting ever patiently for us



As we take photos
And we take photos
And then we take more photos
And when the day is set

The sun has set
We retire to Kampar min bao kei



Go, we go, we go, back to KL
Sing, we sing, we sing, bout the day we had
Thank, we thank, we thank, everyone for
This wonderful journey!



Thank you Jed for being so manly
Because of you we have this story



It will be forever a memory of a lifetime
For a lifetime...
For a lifetime...


Back to reality

Goodbye to 5 meals a day

Goodbye to snuggling under soft comforter

Goodbye to lying on cooling sand under the star-lit sky

Goodbye to parasailing

Goodbye to swimming pool, ping pong and volleyball

Goodbye to MAAW 2012 classes and participants!


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Friday, April 20, 2012

Son Reflectors



by Max Lucado

What does the moon do? She generates no light. Contrary to the lyrics of the song, this harvest moon cannot shine on. Apart from the sun, the moon is nothing more than a pitch-black, pockmarked rock. But properly positioned, the moon beams. Let her do what she was made to do, and a clod of dirt becomes a source of inspiration, yea, verily, romance. The moon reflects the greater light.

And she’s happy to do so! You never hear the moon complaining. She makes no waves about making waves. Let the cow jump over her or astronauts step on her; she never objects. Even though sunning is accepted while mooning is the butt of bad jokes, you won’t hear ol’ Cheeseface grumble. The moon is at peace in her place. And because she is, soft light touches a dark earth.

What would happen if we accepted our place as Son reflectors?

Such a shift comes so stubbornly, however. We’ve been demanding our way and stamping our feet since infancy. Aren’t we all born with a default drive set on selfishness? I want a spouse who makes me happy and coworkers who always ask my opinion. I want weather that suits me and traffic that helps me and a government that serves me. It is all about me. . . .

How can we be bumped off self-center? . . . We move from me-focus to God-focus by pondering him. Witnessing him. Following the counsel of the apostle Paul: “Beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, [we] are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord” (2 Cor. 3:18 KJV).

Beholding him changes us.

—originally from It’s Not About Me

O Lord, change our focus from a me-focus to a God-focus. Work your will in our lives that we might be instruments to do your work and to tell others of your great love. Let our lives reflect your holiness through thick and thin. Help us live in pursuit of what you want rather than what we want. May we keep a firm grip on our faith no matter what hard times come our way. In all we do, may we honor you, amen. 

Saturday, April 07, 2012

My cup of blessings in BNM


When I'm feeling bored, Max cheers me me up with his wild ideas. 
When I'm in trouble, Lily offers advices that diminish all my fears.

When I'm struggling at work, I could just go, "Vince, I'm angry," 
and he would encourage me with much wisdom and creativity.

In need of a listening ear, Jed will be there and he will care. 
Ian always understands; he's my fellow aye-ayn-eff-jay.

When I stay over at Eileen's, she would turn on the fan
so I don't have to swat mosquitoes all night by hand. 
She times herself to wake up earlier than me 
so that she could make breakfast so yummy.

Doulos invites me to many occasions,
so life becomes more interesting.
Jay makes fun of my accents,
but he is a fun being.

Poh Lynn,
is quite a darlin' 
Cat's bubbliness,
is quite contagious.

Rosli, P and Cindy
always help willingly.
At heart, Zaidi's young;
He used to call me talang.

The smell of Boon Hwa's coffee
does work like an aroma therapy.
Yeam is like one who's an all-rounder;
for many things, he always has an answer.

Kevin's a great and sincere teacher who judges not;
Like Raihan, who's always patient when I'm caught in a knot.
Idwan's the best manager anyone could ever have; I look up to him a lot.  
Above all, I have a DD whom I call Doc, who knows how to make one's day;
And a pretty inspirational Director, under whose leadership things get underway.  

Thursday, April 05, 2012

True freedom

"True freedom lies in the power of restraint," said a wise young woman.

This phrase is profound, yet it resonates with me.

More on this later if I have time.

Wednesday, April 04, 2012

Revisiting Wicked the musical

One of the funniest parts of the show (NJ came to my mind)



My favourite song from the show (Simonia came to mind)



XD

Tuesday, April 03, 2012

El mismo cielo

Esta canción expresa todo lo que siento :)